Whoa, this was "uncomfortable" good reading. The thing is, one can not say - no, that isn't true, not for me. Now what? Well, the answer is to bite into the sour apple, as we'd say in Germany, and act on what you just intellectually have understood. Ouch. Aren't sour apples a sweet thing? ;o)...
Just today, I was told it has to do with the necessity level and the condition one is in. Then one goes and moves their butt to finally do. Let's work smarter and move to the top. LOL, at the end we'll love those "sweet, sour apples".
This one had the right amount of bite. Turning things inside out often leads to an uncomfortable feeling, but that’s when clarity can be pure. Liked this one plenty.
Great article, JP! Tenacity is one of my favorite intangible skills!
Appreciate that, Jessica! It’s one of those traits that shows up once things get uncomfortable. Thanks for reading and commenting.
Most definitely during times of discomfort! You’re very welcome, JP! 🤝
"At some point, the search for clarity becomes a place to hide."
That one line is the top excuse nobody wants to admit!
They pay for courses and coaches and challenges to find clarity, and yet they get to the end and discover, often, they are afraid to enforce it.
Exactly, Jim. Clarity can turn into a stall when enforcing it feels harder than chasing the next answer.
Whoa, this was "uncomfortable" good reading. The thing is, one can not say - no, that isn't true, not for me. Now what? Well, the answer is to bite into the sour apple, as we'd say in Germany, and act on what you just intellectually have understood. Ouch. Aren't sour apples a sweet thing? ;o)...
Andek, that uncomfortable part is usually the signal. Once you see it, action is the only real next step, sour apple and all.
Just today, I was told it has to do with the necessity level and the condition one is in. Then one goes and moves their butt to finally do. Let's work smarter and move to the top. LOL, at the end we'll love those "sweet, sour apples".
This one had the right amount of bite. Turning things inside out often leads to an uncomfortable feeling, but that’s when clarity can be pure. Liked this one plenty.
Carl, appreciate that. That uncomfortable flip is usually where things stop being abstract and start getting real.
This makes sense. For me, clarity usually comes afterwards, not while I’m still thinking about it.
Denise, same here. Action first, then things usually sharpen after the fact.
"They’re stuck because clarity would force a decision they’re not ready to make." Ooof, that's powerful. (And so true!)
Thank you for sharing your insights. I'm definitely working on taking more action this year and always.
Alexis, I appreciate that. I wrote that one from a real place. Glad you grabbed it. Action tends to clear things up faster than more thinking.
Try looking at the emotion that’s sitting behind the avoidance
Susan, that’s usually where it lives. Once you name the emotion, the stall starts to make more sense.
I’ve never seen such a good explanation of procrastination, I feel attacked and inspired at the same time 😅
Thanks Illia, I’ve been there too. That mix of called out and fired up is a strange combo. 😀